A Nigerian lady need your advice over her relationship

Hello everyone
Kindly read and give your honest advice in the comment section.

Good morning,

Please I just want to know what people think. I've been talking with a guy for few days now, we met and decided to have a relationship that'll hopefully be leading to marriage later this year because that's what we want. I'm a 9-5 worker, we were talking on phone this morning and he advised that I think of business, I said yes I already have that in mind for future when kids come, moreover

there's no enough money now and I don't really have the time cos of work ,that's not the issue but the statement he made was that "he doesn't need to ask me but maybe in future he can ask me to please support with some money for our house rent", in my mind I'm already having issue with that statement, does it mean he has plans of asking me to contribute for house rent? Did he really mean that or I'm I overreacting? I wanted to call him back and clarify but just decided to send this to hear what people think because I can't be with a man that will be extorting from me as I currently need someone that can support me too, I'm not stingy, I will be doing my own little things but I won't accept contributing to house rent bill because it's the man's responsibility. I want a responsible man that can cater for a family while me a wife supports sometimes or once in a while. Please share, thanks.

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  1. I don't really think u asking him is overreacting but what matters here is that what. Have uh seen in that guy that made u be in relationship with him.if it love then let it rules and if its money then let its decides.Both man and woman makes a home.


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